kingtyrantranger: (Attentive)
Jason Lee Scott ([personal profile] kingtyrantranger) wrote in [community profile] thelegion2016-11-21 03:08 pm

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Guys, just ignore them. The more you respond to the anons and get angry at them, the more they're getting what they want. Just don't give them any attention and go about your usual stuff.

You matter to them more than their opinions should matter to you.
unrecovered: (Recovery One)

[personal profile] unrecovered 2016-11-23 06:01 am (UTC)(link)
Like you said: they have their own opinions. They saw us do things that didn't fit their values, and they're angry.

That doesn't make them right, bit that doesn't mean that you can change their minds. The harder you fight for me, the more they'll stay convinced their opinion is correct. Plus, there'll always be people who use anonymity to be nasty - they think that if their words aren't attached to their name, then they won't have to face any consequences, and they're usually right about that.

So leave them alone. They don't have the courage to talk to me themselves, and trying to change their minds only makes things harder on you.
Edited 2016-11-23 06:02 (UTC)
bachido: (resent)

[personal profile] bachido 2016-11-24 10:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't expect to change their minds but it isn't right for someone to say things like that and not be challenged.

I think. I don't know. It just doesn't seem right.
unrecovered: (Well...)

[personal profile] unrecovered 2016-11-25 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
Because it's not right, but sometimes it's the lesser of two evils. We're talking about people who take a challenge as a victory - if they make you mad, they think they've won. The only way to beat them is not to play their game. Let them think they're unimportant and they'll crawl back into their holes.