[He thinks about it for a moment.]

I think it would be more disrespectful to you if I pretended I wasn't, so yes.

[He's at least not going to lie about it.]

That said, it's understandable that, due to circumstance, you might lack someone to copulate with. I was well into my twenties before I ever found someone...compatible. So, aside from the use of pornographic materials, there's nothing to be ashamed of.