You made choices. They could be considered as much their failing as yours, in fairness. [ Look at who's growing to understand culpability, here.

And by the same token, he's come to accept a little more about the way things had been. How much of it he hadn't realized by being in the middle of that mess, that stepping back and looking it over again allowed him to see. Such is always the way, with hindsight, isn't it York? ]

Yes. In that respect it was very much the same.