Hey, I don't take anything for granted when I've got my serious conversation hat on.
[ He isn't wearing a hat, but he manages to not turn it into a joke. ]
I'm more the "I feel bad about things I could've done better" guy. I guess that means I feel bad about stuff I've done, but enh. It's not how you mean it. I don't regret things that were done as a defense. I don't - I don't always regret some things "they" would be disgusted by.
Regret isn't universal. Guilt isn't one size fits all. I don't have a matching memory that tells me what I'd have done, so I don't have answers. Just - don't ever let them tell you how you should feel.
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[ He isn't wearing a hat, but he manages to not turn it into a joke. ]
I'm more the "I feel bad about things I could've done better" guy. I guess that means I feel bad about stuff I've done, but enh. It's not how you mean it. I don't regret things that were done as a defense. I don't - I don't always regret some things "they" would be disgusted by.
Regret isn't universal. Guilt isn't one size fits all. I don't have a matching memory that tells me what I'd have done, so I don't have answers. Just - don't ever let them tell you how you should feel.